Stop Trying To Be Perfect!

Stop Trying To Be Perfect!

Striving for perfection can make you stop before you even start.

Everyone has these moments: when the voice inside your head tells you that you are not good enough, or that your efforts will be wasted because you can never achieve what you want in life.

Stop listening to that voice!

 

1. Your voice tells you not to take risks

That voice cares about your ego, which is why it is so persistent. It doesn’t want you to experience failure or setbacks, so it tells you not to even try to achieve your goals. It wants you to experience life in the safest ways, so to cushion the blows, and to make a harsh reality gentler, it talks you out of taking risks.

Sure, it protects you from failure. But not even trying is failure itself. So stop trying to be perfect!

 

2. We are all flawed

We all have ideals. We all want to be perfect. But that’s not reality. The truth is, we are all flawed. There are things about ourselves that we wish we can improve on or change all together.

I sat on this idea to start a blog, my own business, for about two years. Two years! That’s 730 days that I spent mulling over these ideas without doing anything that would get me closer to achieving my goals. There are lots of ways that that time could have been spent more productively, such as posting weekly or biweekly blogs, building my website and my community, and sharpening my writing skills. But self-doubt and fears of failure took up most of my time.

This paralysis by fear is something that many of you have experienced.

 

3. Fear is a challenge we all face

Starting this blog was a challenge in itself. Like undertaking any new project, my mind was already focused on failure before I even gave it a chance to live and breathe. There were a lot of fears, a lot of doubts, that got in the way of starting, such as, “I don’t have anything interesting to say,” or “It’s too much work,” and “No one will pay attention to what I write.” These were all valid points.

These were all challenges that many have faced before me. But for every objection that I raised, there were also so many rebuttals. For example, “this could work”. Or, “once I get started, and find my community, I will have lots to say”. Or, “People could find what I had to say to be both interesting, useful, and relatable.”

Beset by fears, I almost talked myself out of even starting. There were times when I asked myself, “Why am I even doing this?” I lost my sense of purpose. I lost sight of all the good things that could come out of starting a blog. Success with what I wanted to achieve felt impossible.

 

4. We are too comfortable doing nothing rather than do something

All those negative thoughts run through your mind, and they could all be right. By the end of all of your attempts, you can still feel like a failure. But what about all of those other chances where you could’ve been successful? These are equally possible but we tend to overlook these possibilities in favour of the doom and gloom because it’s more comfortable. We talk ourselves out of trying, because it takes such little effort to do nothing in comparison to doing something. Stop listening to negative thoughts and trying to be perfect!

 

5. Change your mindset about perfectionism

To stop perfectionism from holding you back, you must change your mindset. The path to success begins with the right attitude. Here are four mindset shifts that can set you in the right direction:

1. Failure is an expected part of the process. Remember that any successful venture has seen many iterations that failed before finally finding one that works. So practice resilience. Each blow that knocks you down is another reason for you to get up and try again. Before you throw in the towel, I challenge you to keep going at it even if you’ve suffered a setback.

2. Find your support group, your community, your like-minded people. You need someone to cheer you on when it gets tough, a sounding board for your creative ideas, and a party to celebrate your successes.

3. A calculated risk provides a cushion for failure. Not all risks are created equal. When you’re thinking of taking a risk, make sure it’s one founded in reality and that you have a fallback plan in place so that any potential failure won’t cripple your venture.

4. Don’t expect overnight success. Too many people give up before they start to see a glimmer of the results they were hoping to achieve. Building your own business is not easy but don’t let that deter you because anything worth having is worth the blood, sweat and tears it takes to achieve it.

 

6. We are our own loudest critics

One success, one step in the right direction, no matter how small, is the boost that keeps you going, your reason for being motivated and showing up each day. It’s easy to get trapped into thinking that the rewards are so insignificant compared to the blood, sweat and tears that went into your project. But it takes a lot of guts to start your own venture, so don’t downplay even the littlest mountain that you conquered.

Without a doubt, we are our biggest and most loudest critics. We set very high, and sometimes very impossible to reach, standards for ourselves. We want to be the best. So instead of using these ideals for self-defeating purposes, why not try to shape these ideals into goals with tiny, attainable steps? We all need the encouragement to just start, so try taking one small step. Chart your progress not just by visualizing the end goal, but by taking count of the steps you took to get there.

7. Our flaws make us all relatable

Don’t hide your flaws; they make you more relatable. Relatability unites you and your audience and gives them a greater reason to listen to you. It’s impossible to be perfect because there’s always room for improvement. Even when you think of someone who appears to be perfect, there’s a great chance that they’re not stopping at where they are, but are always looking for ways to improve and be even better at what they do.

Empathy is a winner: persuade your audience by being more relatable

Empathy is a winner: persuade your audience by being more relatable

Selling, when done the wrong way, can feel manipulative, like you’re preying on someone’s emotions, needs and desires. How can one be more authentic? And most of all, how can you get your audience to care about you? The answer to that is empathy. Empathy makes you more relatable. Empathy makes you a winner.

 

1. Persuade your audience by being more relatable because empathy wins their trust

There are a lot of examples where you might be trying to get your audience to care. It could be because you’re trying to launch a product in your business, or you’ve written a blog post and are releasing it out on the web. You encounter resistance from your audience, who have caught onto all the marketing tricks and are more perceptive than you think.

But these days, people aren’t just indifferent, they’re apathetic.

 

2. Apathy versus indifference

What’s the difference?

It’s subtle, and you might say that it’s just semantics, but when people are indifferent, they don’t care about whether the result of an event goes one way or another. Like choosing a flavour of ice cream, they could just as easily choose chocolate or vanilla if both are available. When they’re apathetic, they don’t care because it takes too much effort to make a conscious choice between two different things. So using the ice cream example, they choose to have nothing at all because they’re fine with being without it.

 

3. It takes even more effort to make people care

There are reasons why people are apathetic. They have to survive with what little resources that they have, and that means looking after themselves before they look out for other people. It’s not that they don’t have any empathy, it’s because they don’t have a lot of time to spend serving the needs of people who are outside of their immediate circle of acquaintances such as their family members, friends, and co-workers.

 

4. Have a unique and compelling message that is relatable

That’s why you have to work hard at changing their minds, to make them see the world as you do. People can be stubborn. There’s too much noise and your voice can get lost easily in the racket. The challenge of being heard can be conquered if you have a voice that is unique and if your message is compelling.

This is where the power of persuasion enters the picture. You have to convince people to part with their hard earned money, their precious and rare nuggets of free time, to pay attention to you and what you have to say when there are a million different things they would rather be doing.

 

5. Empathy is the key to winning your audience’s attention

Truly understand what you are saying, or the message that you are trying to get across to your audience. Does it have emotional, physical, or monetary benefits? Are you phrasing your message so that it resonates with their emotional centres?

Know your audience inside out. What annoys them? What excites them, makes them angry? What motivates them? How can you inspire them to achieve their goals?

 

6.  Sell by not selling

Don’t sell your audience anything. First, offer them those nuggets of useful information at no charge. Be friendly and giving. Let them know that your priority is to help them, not sell them something; the selling should be second in terms of priority. There are lots of media that can be given for free, such as blog posts or videos.

Second, your audience wants to know that there is a real person behind the product that you’re trying to sell.

 

7. Tell your audience the truth and have your words be relatable

Don’t dress it up or embellish it. The audience is smart enough to see through a gimmick.

Third, be relatable. Unless your selling point is exclusivity or a luxury that no one can afford (in which case you’ll have to think of another strategy), your audience is much more likely to be convinced that you’re worth their time if they can understand your experience and have gone through the same thing. Build upon your why, your purpose, the reason why they should listen to you.

Asking for something in return then becomes much easier. There should be an exchange of information. The conversation can be centred around how you can help your audience, but also ask for feedback on how you can help each other and how to improve on your product.

8. Understand their pain and empathize with it

It doesn’t take a lot of empathy to understand why people worry, are troubled, or anxious about something. You’re human too, so there must be a point of commonality with your audience, and it’s better if you share this commonality than ignore it.

So why does your audience still not care? They don’t care because they can’t understand you. Ever heard someone speak in a language you don’t understand? You start to tune out and wonder if there’s something better you can do with your time. They don’t get why they should buy your product or why they should listen to you. You might as well be speaking gibberish.

 

9. Use emotions that anyone can relate to

Your life may be very different from everyone else’s, but the marvelous thing about the human experience is that there are, without a doubt, commonalities and themes that are repeated everyday in your life and your audience’s. Everyone feels emotions such as happiness, anger, and excitement. That’s why emotions are such a deep, endless well to draw from when crafting your message.

Sure, you want your audience to aspire to have the product you are selling, but there has to be a balance between desirability (the hope to attain something they don’t have) and being relatable just enough (they already have something in common with you).

Instantly you’ve given them something they can relate to, which leads them to empathize with you, and better understand why you are selling what you are selling.

How to make it easy: the five principles of any good business idea

How to make it easy: the five principles of any good business idea

Introduction

Every entrepreneur will tell you that a business succeeds because it solves a problem. Usually, what they mean is that a business is profitable because it helps people by making their lives easier and more efficient. Any good business idea will have at least one of five key principles that makes life easy.

But if you’re a new or aspiring entrepreneur, you may be at a loss for how to think of a new business idea that actually helps people.

In this blog post, I will go through these five principles of finding easy business ideas that work. These five principles can be used for coming up with a business idea, a product or service. It can also help with finding new ways of working and doing your job. Because they can be applied to a wide range of problems, the solutions that you can find by applying these principles are limitless.

Below is a list of five principles to jump start your business ideas.

 

1. Simplify

Simplify means to make something that is difficult to understand, easy.

Ever felt like if there was a choice to make something simple or make something overcomplicated, people would choose the more complicated route?

This is where you can come up with a solution that explains things without the need to over-complicate and resort to jargon.

For example, creating an educational class, tutorial or webinar is a type of product that sells because it simplifies learning. Knowledge is easier to come by if you make it easy to understand and implement actions. Bonus points if your buyer can achieve results faster and learn what you are trying to teach in just a few simple steps.

If you choose to simply, make sure that you uncomplicate matters. A potential buyer won’t use a product because it’s too complicated or time consuming to understand how to use.

 

2. Streamline

Streamline means shortening a process into fewer steps, and breaking down large steps  into smaller, shorter steps.

Streamlining things can make a process more efficient. Most people are looking for products that save them time and money, and have a greater return on investment.

Products or services that streamline a process are useful because they reduce the time and money spent trying to accomplish something.

By reducing the number of steps, you are creating a “lean” process. What are the advantages of a lean process?

The major advantage is that you don’t have time to waste on doing extra work, so the more the process is reduced to a few key steps, the better. When designing a product look for ways to eliminate any unnecessary steps, which will help getting it done faster and more efficiently.

 

3. Aggregate

Aggregate means putting things together all in one place so it is easier to find. Aggregating gives structure and order to messy, disparate elements.

When it’s all in one place, you don’t need to go to many different sources to locate the information. Because it’s your one stop shop for information, your audience will spend more time with your product, such as a website.

If you make it easy for your customer to retrieve information, they will thank you for it. It’s even better if the way you aggregate information is organized and easily indexed.

 

4. Synthesize

Synthesize means summarizing, or creating something new out of disparate elements. Along the same lines of aggregating, by synthesizing you combine elements together to organize the information. By finding similarities between dissimilar objects, you bring together their commonalities so that the information is easier to understand.

Another way to think about synthesizing is that if there are different moving parts to a business, uniting the parts into a whole will make the structure more cohesive.

Synthesizing also draws out new insights and new ways of thinking about the problem, and hence leads the way to better solutions.

 

5. Automate

Automate means making repetitive tasks automatic. If it’s done automatically, it’s done without having to spend time thinking about it.

Technology has given us a lot of opportunities to automate, which frees up your time to concentrate on the other things that matter. It also makes things go faster so you can get more done.

With things like AI and software, you won’t need to waste your time and energy doing something when a machine can do it for you.

Also, you don’t have to pay a robot to do these tasks whereas you have to pay a human for their work.

Mistakes can be costly. If your machine is reliable and in good working order, it reduces human error. For example, scanning by the human eye is less reliable than scanning using a machine.

 

Conclusion

By keeping in mind these five principles, designing your product or service to solve your customer’s problem should be easy.

These principles break down the different ways that you can make life easier for your potential buyer. Your offering should fit into one of these five categories for its value to be clear and obvious.

If you are stuck at thinking of a good idea, the best way to brainstorm is to make a list of ways that your product or service accomplishes one or more of these five principles. Think of it as having a call to action already built into your system and why your buyer should act now.

Finally, these five principles are ideas that guide you on how to add value to your product or service.

Can a Night Owl Be an Early Bird?

Can a Night Owl Be an Early Bird?

I’m a confirmed night owl and I will wake up early only if I need to. But I am curious. Whether it be myth or fact, most likely you’ve heard that early birds are more productive and more successful. Is this true? Is it possible to reset my long established patterns of sleep and wakefulness to be an early bird?

Being an early bird might be the envy of some night owls, who want to be more productive and live longer and healthier lives.

My goal of becoming an early bird was motivated both by wanting to be more productive, and also for my career: I have a job that requires an early commute to the office (one and a half hours to be exact).

It’s the summer so I thought that with the sun rising earlier, it would follow that trying to wake up earlier would be easy. With the added bonus of getting enough sunlight to kick start the production of vitamin D, the summer would be the best time to stay fit and healthy.

I’ve been training my body to go to sleep early and wake up early. As someone who is used to waking up at 8:00 AM, I was determined to do a hard reset of my sleep/wake schedule and to be up and moving by 6:20 AM, and out the door by 6:50 AM. I have to improve my morning routine, which mostly involves skipping breakfast until I get to the office, and the hour and half long commute. I know it’s detrimental to skip breakfast, but I can only focus on one lifestyle change at a time. So what happened during the rest of the day?

Well, it’s no surprise that I was tired. Dead tired. By 11:00 AM, I was tired and sleepy, craving a soft pillow to fall asleep on, and extremely irritated, which was compounded by a craving for caffeine. Alas the caffeine didn’t help.

But within a few days, I was adjusting to waking up early, and the morning tiredness and sleepiness started to ease. I was more alert and ready to work, and less reliant on caffeine.

From this experiment, there were several questions that I wanted to answer. Are early birds more productive than night owls?

It’s been backed by scientific research that early birds are more productive, the reason being that there are less distractions very early in the day, so there are more opportunities to get things done and check off the items on your to-do list. However,studies also show that night owls are associated with greater creativity.

Do I have to choose between being more productive or being more creative? I’d choose both, but as you probably concluded, it’s not possible to be both an early bird and a night owl. The point is, there are trade-offs to being an early bird or night owl, which is why I think it’s faulty to conclude that being one is better than the other.

There are multiple factors that can determine whether you are productive, some of which have nothing to do with whether you are an early bird or night owl. Society and culture can both be at play here instead of something that is determined by your biology. Cultural norms and upbringing are factors that play a role in your productivity and work habits.

Furthermore, productivity can be seasonal. People report that they are more productive in September. This is probably the effect of memory and social customs: school starts in September. Remember the excitement (or dread?) leading up to the first day of school? And after a restful summer, people are recharged, their energy levels are higher, and they’re ready to start working again.

It would be interesting to study whether productivity is also affected by geographical location, for example, in regions where it is constantly daylight or constantly nighttime.

Are people naturally early birds or night owls, and do I have a choice between being one or the other?

There’s strong evidence that there is a genetic component to being an early or late riser. Your circadian rhythm, or biological clock, regulates sleep, blood pressure, body temperature, and metabolism. Also, your melatonin levels are a contributing factor. The release of melatonin causes you to fall asleep. Early birds have higher levels of melatonin earlier in the evening whereas night owls stay up later because their melatonin doesn’t kick in until later in the evening.

Studies have shown that disturbances in your circadian rhythm can lead to health problems such as heart disease and diabetes.

It might motivate you to be an early bird upon hearing this, but if you’re hard wired to be one or the other, it seems like a long shot to beat your genetics at its own game. If you’re a night owl like me, don’t think of it as being faced with the impossible task of beating your own genetics. Think of it as implementing small changes that will work in your favour and not against it.

It might be true that early birds are more successful, but getting enough sleep is better than trying to wake up early in the morning if you are naturally inclined to stay up late. Be the one that best suits your personality and lifestyle.

Some will say it’s better to be an early bird, others will say a night owl. There’s another camp that will tell you that it’s not right or wrong to be one or the other.

Making lifestyle changes, and making good choices instead of bad ones, will go a long way to improving your health.

There are the obvious measures that you can take to achieve this: cut back on alcohol, nicotine and caffeine. Exercise regularly. Get enough sleep.

There’s always room for self-improvement. As a night owl, my motivation to be an early riser is to ideally have a more organized morning routine with exercise, breakfast, self-reflection, either meditation or journaling, and to rely less on caffeine to wake me up.

Was it hard to change and did I succeed in being an early bird?

The answer was yes and no. I was able to get up on time on days when I had to be at work early, though I was just as tempted to sleep in on days when I didn’t.

Did I see any benefits?

Not yet, I conclude that it doesn’t matter how early you get up, if you don’t have the motivation you won’t be able to see the benefits. Even though I became an early riser, if the motivation to make good use of my time is missing, then there would be no benefits.

This experiment taught me that it is possible to reset my sleep/wake schedule to be an early bird, even if I was a night owl my entire life. But since my commute takes up most of my morning routine, I will have to try to squeeze in an extra hour where I can focus on getting things done. I found that my productivity stayed the same, though this could be the effect of other factors such as motivation.

So if you’re a night owl, give this a try and you might find that this changes your lifestyle for the better along with getting you motivated to work on other areas of self-improvement.

How to sell what people want

How to sell what people want

Introduction

Creating a product or service that people will want to buy doesn’t have to be a mystery. It doesn’t require specialized techniques that are available to only a select few. With the amount of information available on the internet, setting up a business has truly become democratized. It’s accessible to anyone who will put in the effort to do their research and apply their knowledge.

Setting up a business sounds simple – come up with a business idea, package the product, market it, and rake in the money.

As you probably suspect, this is an oversimplification, so in this blog post I will go through the steps you can take to further refine your business idea and take it to market.

People have written entire books on how to sell what people want, but I’m going to distill the essentials into one easy, actionable blog post. This will give you the basics of how to get started on your entrepreneurial journey. I will go through the factors you need to consider when creating your product, the process of determining whether there is a market for it, and how to promote it and get the word out to potential customers.

Step 1. Decide whether to sell a service or a product

Everywhere you look, there is a glut of stuff for sale. Products are available through the internet, brick and mortar shops, malls, and stores. Vendors fill their shelves with products, and you can buy software online with a click of the mouse. It seems like there is a solution in the form of a product for every problem that you have.

That’s why you need to dig deep when you are trying to create a product or service to sell. Go one step ahead and try to really differentiate yourself from the crowd.

Your product doesn’t need to reinvent the wheel. You can recycle and repackage by representing it in a different way that improves upon the original idea. For example, you can re-design something so that it is easier to consume or use.

But the question you want to answer is, what do people need or want?

Unless you’re entirely self-sufficient and don’t need anything, everyone needs something!

People are persuaded to buy or consume your product because it helps them solve a problem.

The first step is to decide whether you want to sell a product or a service. There are advantages and drawbacks of each.

For a physical product, you have to manufacture it, which requires finding the equipment and raw materials to get started. You may also need a warehouse to store the products. But unlike a service, you can mass produce it and sell many units of it, whereas if you’re selling a service, it’s constrained by the amount of time you have to offer the service, and the price that you set for your time. There’s only one of you, or the number of people you employ, so your offering is constrained by time.

There’s a solution to both of these problems, and people have capitalized on it many times. Instead of a physical product, you can sell digital products such as ebooks, courses, software, and paid digital subscriptions. Your products are more scalable this way, and it eliminates the need for raw materials, warehouses or employees.

Step 2. Find a niche

The next step is to find a niche. Some of the more popular niches include finance, food, lifestyle, fitness and travel. But these are generally broad, so narrow down your niche to be more specific. The more narrow the niche, the better because you’re faced with less competition.

If you can’t decide on a niche, write down a list of all the characteristics of your target demographic, including their age, education, family, career, and gender. These are the criteria that will help you decide in which market you want to target.

Always have your target market in mind when designing your product; this will guide you on how to sell what people want.

Step 3. Do market research

Do your market research to find out whether your idea is appealing to your target market, and whether it’s something they will want to buy. The results of your research allows you to question your assumptions about your customer. For example, you might think that they want to buy something, but your results show that they want something entirely different.

Market research is usually done through interviews, emails, focus groups, surveys and questionnaires (primary sources). You don’t need to spend a lot of money or hire a third party market research company to do it for you. It can be done as simple as sending a questionnaire to your Facebook group and asking them for feedback on your idea.

Know the trends in your industry inside out by conducting research on secondary sources such as white papers, which are available at your local library or online.

Once you have collected your data, it’s time to analyze it. There are different analytic techniques you can use, depending on whether your research was quantitative or qualitative. You can use software to analyze the data, some of which are free.

Doing a competitor analysis is also part of the next step. Find out your competitors’ strengths and weaknesses to better understand how you can fill the gap in the market. The analysis will be useful when it’s time to think of ways to differentiate your business from your competitors.

Step 4. Create a minimum viable product

After you’ve done some brainstorming and some market research, it’s time to choose one idea and create what is called your “minimum viable product” or MVP. The MVP is your starting point. If you’re unsure if there will be enough demand for your product, try creating an early version of what you want your product to be. It has the basic features which will still make it functional, but without the bells and whistles of the final product. The point of the MVP is to test the waters without wasting your resources to create something that won’t sell.

An example of an MVP is as an app with the basic features, a website with only a landing page, or the essentials of a service. An MVP doesn’t have to be a product either, it could be a survey asking your potential customers whether they are interested if you created a product or service.

The MVP gauges the interest of your potential customers, and gives you an idea if you can potentially make sales off of the product. It’s at this point that you can gather feedback, and test the product, and solve any issues such as bugs in your app.

Step 5. Create your brand

Now that you have your product, the next step is to decide on your branding strategy. Branding could include anything that visually represents your business, such as logos, colours, fonts, and designs on your website. At this point, it might help to hire a graphics designer on a contract basis to design your website.

Branding also includes the messages and slogans associated with your business. There are branding agencies solely devoted to branding strategy, but if you don’t have the resources to hire an agency, you can easily do the basics on your own.

You should ask yourself, what emotions do you want to go through the minds of your customer when they think of your brand? Shape your message to trigger these emotions.

To be effective, your message must be persuasive, sharp, to the point, and geared towards your target market. It should answer the question, why should your customer buy from you instead of any other competitor?

Step 6. Marketing your product or service

The final step to selling what people want is to choose your marketing channels, which can include social media, paid ads, and email. Digital marketing is overtaking traditional forms of marketing (e.g. physical ads and broadcast ads on TV or radio) so it would be wise to concentrate your efforts on social media platforms and ads as seen on search engines.

Your marketing efforts should lead your customer down the sales funnel. To do this successfully, you have to hold their hand and guide them through the process. Have a step-by-step strategy by first promoting your product or service, offering great value, and landing the sale. To clinch the sale, use the insights gained from your market research to reiterate why your product offers the best solution to their problem.

Follow up on prospective buyers by sending out a call to action, which can be in the form of an email to keep your product on their radar. Whatever method you choose, it should convince the customer to take that final step and buy your product.

Conclusion

It takes advance planning and a good strategy to sell what people want. Start by deciding whether you will sell a product or a service in a niche that is either not too saturated or one that allows you to stand out from the crowd. Once you do your market research, create your MVP and get ready to focus on branding and marketing the product. If you follow these steps you’re well on your way to making your very first sale.